LIFE-CHANGING STATEMENTS

1. Take risks in your life. If you win, you can lead; if you lose, you can guide.
2. People are not what they say but what they do; so judge them not from their words but from their actions.
3. When someone hurts you, don't feel bad because it's a law of nature that the tree that bears the sweetest fruits gets maximum number of stones.
4. Take whatever you can from your life because when life starts taking from you, it takes even your last breath.
5. In this world, people will always throw stones on the path of your success. It depends on what you make from them - a wall or a bridge.
6. Challenges make life interesting; overcoming them make life meaningful.
7. There is no joy in victory without running the risk of defeat.
8. A path without obstacles leads nowhere.
9. Past is a nice place to visit but certainly not a good place to stay.
10. You can't have a better tomorrow if you are thinking about yesterday all the time.
11. If what you did yesterday still looks big to you, then you haven't done much today.
12. If you don't build your dreams, someone else will hire you to build theirs.
13. If you don't climb the mountain; you can't view the plain.
14. Don't leave it idle - use your brain.
15. You are not paid for having brain, you are only rewarded for using it intelligently.
16. It is not what you don't have that limits you; it is what you have but don't know how to use.
17. What you fail to learn might teach you a lesson.
18. The difference between a corrupt person and an honest person is: The corrupt person has a price while the honest person has a value.
19. If you succeed in cheating someone, don't think that the person is a fool...... Realize that the person trusted you much more than you deserved.
20. Honesty is an expensive gift; don't expect it from cheap people.

WILL YOU TAKE THE SON?

This is a great story. Take a moment to read it; I Pray it will make your day!

A wealthy man and his son loved to collect rare works of art. They had everything in their collection. They would often sit together and admire the great works of art.

A war broke out, the son went to war. He was very courageous and died in battle while rescuing another soldier. The father was notified and grieved deeply for his only son.


About a month later, there was a knock at the door. A young man stood at the door with a large package in his hands. He said, 'Sir, you don't know me, but I am the soldier for whom your son gave his life. He saved many lives that day, and he was carrying me to safety when a bullet struck him in the heart and he died instantly... He often talked about you, and your love for art.' The young man held out this package. 'I know this isn't much. I'm not really a great artist, but I think your son would have wanted you to have this.'

The father opened the package. It was a portrait of his son, painted by the young man. He stared in awe at the way the soldier had captured the personality of his son in the painting. The father was so drawn to the eyes that his own eyes welled up with tears. He thanked the young man and offered to pay him for the picture.. 'Oh, no sir, I could never repay what your son did for me. It's a gift.'


The father hung the portrait over his mantle. Every time visitors came to his home he took them to see the portrait of his son before he showed them any of the other great works he had collected.


The man died a few months later. There was to be a great auction of his paintings. Many influential people gathered, excited over seeing the great paintings and having an opportunity to purchase one for their collection.


On the platform sat the painting of the son. The auctioneer started thus: 'We will start the bidding with this picture of the son. Who will bid for this picture?'


There was silence...


Then a voice in the back of the room shouted, 'We want to see the famous paintings. Skip this one.'

But the auctioneer persisted 'Will somebody bid for this painting? Who will start the bidding? N50,000, N250,000?'
Another voice angrily. 'We didn't come to see this painting. We came to see the great popular paintings!'

But still the auctioneer continued. 'The son! The son! Who'll take the son?'
Finally, a voice came from the very back of the room. It was the long-time gardener of the man and his son. 'I'll give N5,000 for the painting...' Being a poor man, it was all he could afford.

'We have N5,000, who will bid N10,000?'
'Give it to him for N5,000. Let's see the masters.'

The crowd was becoming angry…they didn't want the picture of the son. They wanted the more worthy investments for their collections.

The auctioneer continued.. 'Going… going…gone! SOLD for N5,000!'

A man sitting on the second row shouted, 'Now let's get on with the collection!'

The auctioneer laid down his gavel. 'I'm sorry, the auction is over.'

'What about the paintings?'

'I am sorry. When I was called to conduct this auction, I was told of a secret stipulation in the will... I was not allowed to reveal that stipulation until this time. Only the painting of the son would be auctioned. Whoever bought that painting would inherit the entire estate, including the paintings. The man who took the son gets everything!'

God gave His son over 2,000 years ago to die on the Cross. Much like the auctioneer, His message today is: 'The Son, the Son, who'll take the Son?'

Because, you see, whoever takes the Son gets everything!

FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, WHO SO EVER BELIEVETH, SHALL HAVE ETERNAL LIFE (John 3:16...THAT'S LOVE.

20 GODLY RULES FOR GODLY MEN

1.       Never raise your voice for any reason to your wife. “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.” (Prov 15v1)

2.       Don’t expose your wife's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper. “For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret.” (Eph 5v12)

3.       Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your wife, you never know how she will interpret them. “A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken.” (Prov 15v13)

4.       Never compare your wife to other women; you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack her Ego, her love for you will diminish. 2Co 10:12 “For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.”

5.      Never ill treat your wife's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your wife.

6.       Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your wife sex. You must give it to her how she wants it. 1Co 7:5 “Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.”

7.      Never compare your wife to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover.

8.        Never shout at your wife in front of children. “Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:” (Eph 4v31)

9.       Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave. “And ye shall be betrayed both by parents, and brethren, and kinsfolks, and friends; and some of you shall they cause to be put to death.” (Luke 21v16)

10.   Don't forget that wives want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for her. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.

11.   Don't be too judgemental to your wife. “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.” (Eph 4v29)

12.   Don't associate with men who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.

13.   Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable. Heb 13:4 “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” (Heb 13:4)

14.  Love your children and   teach them well in the way of the Lord. “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” (Prov 22:6)

15.   You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.

16.   Pray always for your wife and family. “Pray without ceasing.” (1 Thess 5v17)

17.   Never share your wife’s love or affection with anybody.  

18.   Be gentle and accommodating. “With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love;” Eph 4:2.

19.  Never hide anything from your wife.

20.  Do not make negative comments about your wife’s body. She risked her life and beauty to carry your babies. “Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.” (Prov. 18:22.)